@snaredrumfreak14
I know your dilemma all too well! Here's what I like to do whenever I'm trying to build up my rudiment speed...
-Set the met somewhere between here and canada. How about 75 bpm.
-If you're leading with your right hand, play the flam 5s with your right hand on the rim and your left hand on the drum. If you're on a pad, keep your right hand on the pad and put your left hand on your leg, much like doing the hokee pokee

-As you play the flam 5s at 75 bpm with your hands split, listen to the rhythm of your right hand. Once you have it memorized, stop playing your left.
-Now, gradually speed up the isolated right hand...let's say by 4 bpm. See how fast you can play that rhythm without any left.
-Once you feel confident with that, go back through the steps and switch which hand is on the rim (on the pad), starting from 75 bpm and gradually working your speed up.
Let us know how that goes! And apply it to any rudiment which uses two hands. Wait... they ALL use two hands

Or two feet... alright here's my daily confession... there was a time when I would spend 30% of my practice time learning how to balance sticks/mallets on my face. End of confession.
