For me on my left hand i cross my thumb and index finger over the top to make a "T", helps provide a good fulcrum, i then take my middle finger and rest it on the top of the stick, most people think its ok for it to come off when playing fast singles or doubles. For proper technique
thats wrong. the middle finger helps
alot with control believe it or not. I then let the stick rest on top of the cuticle of my ring finger. i
dont let the stick slide back off the cuticle, you lose control of the stick that way. i then let my pinkie just rest under my ring finger and stay connected to that finger. A way to check that is grab a nickel and a dime and hold it in these two fingers while playing. it helps form a good habit. This is my technique for my left hand and what i have been taught.